Articles

My writing can be found in weekly essays on Substack and in traditional publications

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Feb 27, 2026

Raising Boys Who Won’t Laugh

8 Lessons from the Men’s Hockey Team
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Feb 20, 2026

You Should Grow Your (Body) Hair

Don't let pedophiles dictate your beauty standards
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Feb 13, 2026

The Trauma of Ordinary Girlhood

And how trauma research gets it wrong
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Jan 29, 2026

Men Should Be Angrier

On Minimization, Power, and the Illusion of Immunity
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Jan 18, 2026

Renee Good Was A Fucking Bitch

How misogyny turns defiance into a death sentence.
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Dec 22, 2025

Three Holiday Essays That Shouldn’t Still Be Relevant (But Are)

The holidays promise peace and cheer, but they also offer a front-row seat to how gender expectations and sexism operate in real time—from the unpaid, invisible labor that keeps every celebration running, to the erasure of women’s names on envelopes, to family photos that literally bind and gag women and girls “for laughs.”
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Dec 18, 2025

When the World Feels Untenable, Care Is a Radical Act

What a single act of courage—and a week of family illness—taught me about refusing the logic of violence.
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Nov 21, 2025

The Government Just Downgraded Women’s Work

Educated women are the biggest threat—so their professional pathways are being dismantled
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Nov 18, 2025

Women Are Ruining Everything (And It’s About Time)

Turns out human decency looks a lot like chaos to the people in charge
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Nov 12, 2025

ICE Enforcement and Childhood Trauma

America’s crackdown on immigrants is waging psychological war on kids.
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Nov 6, 2025

The Alarming Body Consciousness of 8-Year-Old Girls

Maybe Luxury Skincare For Babies Explains It
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Oct 28, 2025

Are Women Finding Protection in Traditional Gender Roles?

How the Erika Kirk brand of CEO is preying on young women’s fear

Selected Works

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How to Address Sexual Harassment and Assault with Children

Nov 16, 2023
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Goodbyes Are Important but We Didn’t Know to Say Goodbye

Oct 3, 2023
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Men Really Want Emotional Intimacy

Feb 8, 2022
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We Tell Our Daughters They’re Beautiful

Jun 19, 2020
Parents Theres No Vaccine For Sexism But Diagnosis Goes A Long Way
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Parents, There’s No Vaccine For Sexism—But Diagnosis Goes A Long Way

Apr 23, 2020
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7 Unexpected Ways Clay Is Therapeutic

Mar 8, 2020
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6 Common Misconceptions Of Therapy

Dec 20, 2019
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Why Does Talk Therapy Take So Long?

Oct 18, 2019
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Brett Kavanaugh Missed his Moment to Shine

Oct 14, 2018